People can tell a woman she's beautiful daily and most women, including myself, will find a way to negate it. Oh, but let someone say she's ugly or fat and there's going to be a serious problem. Embrace your beauty. You may never be model size but you should be your own definition of perfect. I know I'm not hard to look at but I need to lose a little of this sexiness. Besides, I'm not quite ready to stop turning heads. :)